Musings: Working with toxic colleagues
Due to the vicissitudes of everyday life, whinging about your work colleagues about the “unfair” situation your place of work can feel uniquely cathartic. Unl...
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Musings: What nosy Nigerians tell me about parenting
Mention your kid in a conversation, and there’s a fifty per cent chance someone will offer you advice about parenting. You didn’t ask for it, but now you’re trapped. You...
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Musings: How to cope with losing your purpose in life (or not)
Ever feel like you have a higher purpose? Something you’re meant to do with your life — a calling you’re destined to fulfil? You’re not alone. It’s no wonder so many of...
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Musings: Hypergamy – Why women go for rich men
I am sure a lot of you are just coming across the term ‘hypergamy’ for the first time but before I delve into any dissertation, let me quote an excerpt from t...
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Musings: Practising safe sex – In defence of masturbation
Masturbation is the safest sex but it has such a terrible reputation. Those who advocate for abstinence do so in part because they believe the safest sex is zero sex. But...
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Musings: Parenting is thankless – avoid overexposing your kids online
Consider the effect overexposure to social media from a young age does to the psyche of your child due to your parenting. “Mum, we have discussed this. “You...
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Musings: In the age of the autodidact
The new world demands we teach ourselves – being an autodidact. Most times, we waddle through life without a clue on what the endgame will be. Well, life doesn’t gi...
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Musings: Making life easier is sometimes counter-productive
For many thousands of years, humankind has been obsessed with the idea of making life easier; making our existence more comfortable. At around 10,000 BC, our ancestors be...
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Musings: Reality TV is here to stay and there is nothing you can do about it
It’s just a reality TV show. There is no big deal in engaging in these acts of escapism whilst trying to cope with the daily vicissitudes of the real world. Well, t...
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Musings: Being purposeful isn’t enough to birth a movement
I’m a writer. In my mind, my essays help people think. Maybe spark a change in thinking patterns and/or a movement. To see straight in a world that bends our perspective....
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