Have you ever wanted to give your man the best of sex he will remember for a long while and be grateful to you? Do you want to remind him why he’s a lucky, lucky man?
Then tear off some clothes tonight, get wild and ride him until his brains pop out of excitement.
First things first though: There is no objective right or wrong way to ride your partner! We will give you plenty of tips and techniques, but try to remember that your goal is to satisfy him as well your own enjoyment.
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Trying these techniques should feel good for you too. Now, here’s how to ace the girl on top position and make riding your guy feel even better.
Forget what you see in the porn movies
You always see porn stars flat on their feet, bouncing up and down at breakneck speed, and slamming down with a ferocious intensity. It looks intimidating, painful, and even a little terrifying!
In reality, the cowgirl is a much more relaxed position. You typically use a smaller range of motion, move slower, and grind more than bounce. Don’t let porn keep you from trying it out.
Don’t go too fast
Finishing too soon is one of the most common sexual problems men face. There are several tricks that can delay his orgasm and give you the chance to climax simultaneously.
Edging means bringing someone to the brink of orgasm but denying them the final climax and it’s a great way to drive your man wild in bed.
Have your partner lie flat on his back, and straddle him so that your legs are on each side of his body. You should be resting on your knees, with your feet pointing back towards his feet, and your body should be fairly upright.
Take his penis or strap-on in your hand and help guide it into you. A little lube can help make the slide-in easier, especially if you’re feeling nervous.
Lower all the way onto it, then, slowly, ever so slowly, start rocking your hips back and forth in the direction of his head.
Keep your pelvis in contact with his at first (remember, no bouncing unless you want to!). Then try grinding your hips in slow circles. Experiment with clockwise and counterclockwise movements.