Ladies so if the man in your life is giving off any of these signs you may be the pursuer. You’ve heard it said before that men love the chase, and this is somewhat true.
Practicing patience can go a long way in a new relationship.
When a man finds a secure woman that is not needy for his time or attention, it forces him to step his game up. Even if you think you’re just being friendly and flirty sending him a text or surprising him at his job for his birthday, you may be harming the relationship and opening the door to get hurt.
Too much too soon could put you at emotional risk. If you are in the “chaser” zone there’s a good chance you’re trying to compensate for something missing that no man can give. Do some self evaluation and examination to know what it is you’re really after. Still unsure who’s chasing who?
Osigweh Lilian Oluchi is a graduate of the University of Lagos where she obtained a B.A (Hons) in English, Masters in Public and International affairs (MPIA). Currently works with 1stnews as a Database Manager / Writer.