My name is Esther, a 30-year-old married woman with two children. I am not proud to say that I am neck deep in adultery. My husband pushed me into it, and I can’t stop now.
I am not happy cheating on my husband and breaking my marital vows with this adulterous affair. It is affecting my marriage and home but I am neck deep into it and can’t get out of it even if I wanted to.
I know many readers will blame me for allowing myself to fall into the temptation. Before you condemn me, I implore you to hear me out.
Like I stated earlier, my husband Peter, actually pushed me into the arms of another man. Since then, I have found it difficult to stop.
It happened about two years ago when Peter changed and became quite something else. The once loving husband and father he was suddenly became a monster, keeping different women, going away for weeks without telling me where he was and chasing after anything in a skirt.
And he did not do it in secret as he made sure he rubbed it in my face. Anytime I complained about his attitude, Peter would beat me up for daring to question him.
I knew something was amiss. I tried my best to get him to talk but he refused. Then I found out that he was dating another woman. He had rented an apartment for her as well as taking care of the woman’s kids.
When I confronted him with my findings, instead of apologizing, Peter descended on me and sent me out of his house in the middle of the night.
I was so disturbed and worried that I did not know when I agreed to start seeing Andy, a colleague at work who had been disturbing me for a relationship for years even though he knew I was married.
Without meaning to, I fell in love with Andy and he proved to be the exact opposite of my husband. Andy was always there for me. He paid attention to my problems.
Even when family members intervened and I went back to my home, I still found time to be with Andy and we had sex regularly.
At the initial stage, I had told myself that I just needed a shoulder to lean on but as it has turned out, I have fallen in love with Andy and even at the risk of losing my marriage, I can’t give him up.
I am torn between two worlds. I need help here.
Dear readers, before you blame Esther for cheating on her husband, you have to put yourself in her shoes. So, on True Confession today, we would like you to advise her on what she should do to stop this madness.