My name is Tina and I am 26-years-old married to a 34-year-old man who has suddenly become so sexually active that I can no longer take it again.
I got married to Tunde three years ago after dating for almost one year and I now wish I did not marry him because Tunde’s newfound high libido is taking a toll on me.
While we were dating and in the first year of our marriage, we had a normal sex life where we made love often enough and everything went well.
We enjoyed our sex life and I always looked forward to it but in the past six months, things have taken a turn for the worse when he lost his job and began to hang around the neighbourhood with some other loafers.
I don’t know how he discovered a particular sex enhancing drink, a kind of bitter alcohol drink and since he started taking the drink, Tunde’s sexual libido has become something else as he is always in the mood for sex and once he starts, he can last for an hour or more.
Every day while other men go out to look for work, my husband would be hanging out with those jobless men, playing draughts and drinking the nonsense drink and when I get home tired and fagged out, he would descend on me as if I were a prostitute.
Most nights, Tunde would make love to me almost five times and in the morning while preparing for work, he would still want to have sex before I leave.
The weekends are the worst because he would refuse to allow me to go anywhere and he would have sex with me till I get all sore.
Anytime I complain, he would say that as his legally married wife, he has the right to make love to me anytime he wanted.
It got so bad one day when I was sick and could not even get out of bed but that did not deter my husband as he forced himself on me and even when I fainted, he did not stop.
I know most women will say I should be happy that my husband desires me and wants sex all the time but too much of everything, they say, is bad.
I have begged him to go for sexual therapy but he will have none of that. I am not a sex toy for crying out loud.
These days, I get scared whenever I close from work because I know that my husband would have taken his bitters and would be waiting to pounce on me. I am tired of the whole thing.
Dear readers, we all know that one man’s meat is another’s poison and while some women would love their men to have sex with them regularly, Tina is not comfortable with Tunde’s high libido. So on True Confession today, what do you think she should do?